The theme for Couple’s Corner this week is when we thought the relationship is over, hence my title: How To Know If A Relationship Is Over?
Here are some signs to look for when you are in doubt with your relationship: 3 Signs Your Relationship is over. Please take note though that this does not apply to all but a mere generalization..
Secrets. When you start keeping secrets from your partner or you sense that your partner is keeping something from you, be cautious. A relationship will only work if partners are truthful to each other.
No More Sex. Weather you admit it or not, sex is a major part of any relationship. The physical closeness of any people in a relationship is very crucial. You may not have sex for a few weeks or so but lacking intimacy in a day or two is a clear sign your relationship is over. Intimacy is part of your sexual relationship.
Change in the behavior. If he used to say I love you ten times a day and suddenly drops to 3.. take time to see why. Although this may not be sure sign, repeated forgetfulness will tell you.
OK that’s not my entry..
Coincidentally, we just celebrated our 8th year of being husband and wife, 11 years of being together this coming August. I can remember only 2 incidents when I thought it’s over between us…
First was when we we’re just starting. We have no formal relationship and something happened and we’re not the same anymore..and then for some reason I cant remember we’re back into each other’s arm..
Now the juicer part.. this happened a few years ago. It was Holy Week and we were supposed to spend it as a family. In short walang istorbo! (I even asked my sister who was living with us to go home).. The we had visitors.. and I did not liked it. I asked my mom to pick us because I do not want to spend Holy Week with him (and the visitors).. and he did not even bothered to stop us. That led me to think he favors his visitors more than us..
I told him we will be staying with my mom for good and he can have all the time in world to be his own..